I have to
say that to day is really really exciting. I almost done the tasks after the
meeting with AIESECer. I also planned a lot of crazy things to do for AU
Students in the same day. I arranged a metting with a couchsurfer who will
guide me and my friends to some interesting places. I and my friends took a lot
of pictures with AU . Then, I and my roommate had another funny meeting for
what we will do tomorrow. I have to say that, I almost love the people here.
Yeah, The real journey is not counted with miles road, it is counted by
friends. I am experiencing this. Except
the fact is that I couldn't eat late at night, So i am suffering with my gastrointestinal
disorders. I drank a lot if medicine but It was still not work.
Jan 17, 2013
Jan 16, 2013
19 things you have to say yourself
---------19 lời nói với bản thân mình
-------
1. Nếu nhắn tin cho người ta mà lâu
không thấy người ta trả lời, đừng nhắn nữa.. không có sự chờ đợi thấp hèn đến
thế..
2. Nếu không có ai bên cạnh, hãy thử
một mình
nghe nhạc, đọc sách, chơi game, xem
phim, viết blog, viết nhật ký.. Hãy tập quen dần với bản thân mình..
3. Nếu như cảm thấy đau đớn trong
lòng, hãy tìm một
góc nhỏ hoặc trốn trong chăn khóc một
trận long trời lở đất, chẳng cần ai đồng tình thương hại. Khóc xong rồi ngày
mai lại vui vẻ tiếp tục cuộc sống..
4. Nếu có một ai đó làm chậm bước
chân của mình, hãy nhẹ nhàng rẽ sang hướng khác. Người không biết quý trọng
mình không đáng để mình tiếp tục cho đi tình bạn hoặc tình yêu vì cuối cùng người
bị tổn thương nhiều nhất sẽ là mình mà sẽ không có ai xót xa cho mình.
5. Nếu mà có thể không hút thuốc thì
đừng hút.. có thể không uống rượu thì đừng uống. Đây là những hành vi hủy diệt
bản thân, nếu là vì ai đó mà làm vậy.. thì rõ ràng mình là đứa ngốc xít.. những
người thật sự yêu mình sẽ không làm mình đau.
6. Lúc đau buồn nên tìm một người bạn
mà mình tin tưởng để trút tâm sự, không nên chịu đựng một mình, làm tăng thêm nỗi
buồn, nỗi cô đơn..
7. Lúc không vui buổi sáng có thể ngắm
trời xanh mây trắng, buổi tối có thể ngắm trăng ngắm sao, đất trời bao la rồi sẽ
có nơi thuộc về mình. Thà rằng đau một cách cao ngạo còn hơn yêu trong lén lút.
Hãy nói với bản thân mình "You"re the best" và giữ vững niềm
tin.
8. Đừng vì cô đơn mà chọn đại một người
để yêu. Thật chẳng công bằng cho cả hai và cũng thiếu trách nhiệm. Hãy tìm một
người bạn tri kỷ chứ không phải người yêu.
9. Nhớ kỹ ngày sinh của người mình
yêu thương, đó là gia đình và cả chính mình. Sinh nhật mình không ai tặng quà
cũng chẳng sao, mình vẫn có thể mua quà tặng ba mẹ. Nên nhớ, cha mẹ là người vất
vả nhất khi mình sinh ra đời.
10. Lúc rảnh rỗi hãy nghe một đoạn nhạc
hòa tấu nhẹ nhàng, đọc vài trang sách hay, ngủ một giấc trưa. Khi tâm trạng
không vui cũng có thể ngủ một lát.
11. Bắt đầu từ bây giờ, phải thông
minh một chút, đừng bao giờ hỏi người khác có nhớ mình không, có yêu mình
không? Nếu người ta nhớ và yêu mình thì người ta khắc sẽ nói.. những lời này mà
thốt ra từ miệng mình thì người ta sẽ trở nên kiêu ngạo và không quan tâm.
12. Không nên quá quan trọng hoá một
số người hoặc một số việc, hãy để tất cả thuận theo tự nhiên. Thế giới này vốn
không công bằng mà, quá quan trọng một việc gì đó sẽ đánh mất giá trị của bản
thân.
13. Đừng vì bất cứ ai hay bất cứ việc
gì mà ngược đãi bản thân như nhịn đói, khóc thương, tự kỷ, stress.. , đấy là những
hành động chỉ có ngốc mới làm. Tất nhiên, đôi khi có ngốc nghếch một chút cũng
chẳng sao, chẳng ai phải thông minh suốt cả đời..
14. dù trong bất kỳ tình huống nào
cũng không nên nói xấu người khác. Nếu bắt buộc phải nói thì nói vài lời tốt đẹp.
Dù sao thêm một người bạn, cho dù ko phải là thân thiết lắm vẫn hơn là thêm một
kẻ địch vì vài lời nói thiếu thận trọng, thiếu suy nghĩ của mình.
15. Đôi khi có thể xem vài bộ phim bi
HQ nhưng không nên đam mê, có thể ra đường mà tóc tai ủ rũ nhưng phải chú ý trường
hợp, có thể chửi vài từ không hay ho nhưng chỉ khi với bạn bè thân thiết của
mình. Phải nhớ là nói xong thì quên đi những điều ko vui.
16. Phải có một số bạn khác phái, chỉ
đơn giản là bạn thôi nhưng lại là những quân sư tài ba cho mình khi cần thiết.
17. Hãy học cách thay đổi mình khi nỗi
đau đến. Có những lời, nên chôn chặt trong lòng. Có những nỗi đau nên lẳng lặng
quên đi. Khi đã trải qua, thấy mình trưởng thành hơn, tự mình hiểu là đủ. Có những
thay đổi mình không cần phải nói ra, người ta sẽ nhìn thấy.
18. Hạn chế tranh cãi với người khác.
Trong cơn giận người ta rất đáng sợ, sẽ vì mất điều khiển mà nói hoặc làm những
điều đáng sợ không kém. Hãy nhẫn nhịn rồi suy nghĩ căn nguyên của vấn đề mà giải
quyết trong êm đềm.
19. Cho dù phát sinh mâu thuẫn với bất
cứ ai, cố gắng giải quyết trong vòng 24h, càng để lâu sự việc sẽ càng khó giải
thích. Nếu trong phạm vi chấp nhận được hãy xin lỗi trước. Ngẫu nhiên làm người
xấu trước cũng ko phải là việc quá tệ đâu.
Jan 10, 2013
ROUTE
A lot of peoples come to my home to celebrate a small party for me. I am so appreciate about that. I love them anyway. My friend told me that a real life is so cruel! Is that right? With me. I do believe that I can create my own life. Living with my dream . But now, this mind set have some changes. I am not good now. I need something stronger, more adventure , more challenge in order to drive my life out of this ordinary route.
I know I have to do something different...
I know I have to do something different...
Jan 9, 2013
DIARY ON MIDNIGHT
I wish someday I will dress a white dress like a princess on my wedding. Hold a hand of a person that I really love-my husband. Being in a romantic music. I will play a piano song for my wedding. Dance a waltz with my groom. And take a photo with a thousands of pink balloons.
I wish someday, the happy smile will appear on my mom's face again. I didn't see her happy smile for a very long time.
I wish someday I gonna know how to smile with all of my full feeling.
I wish someday I will know what is the real love between person with person.
I wish someday I have the wing to fly into heaven garden.
I wish I will have my close friends beside me ....now
I wish I have a lot of time for my nieces . I love them so much
I wish someday, one person will teach me what is the real love.
I have no love for my childhood . In my memories, my childhood like a horrible movie.
So, I decide give my love for people around me. I decide to give a smile for anyone I meet on the road. I decide to teach any poor children who need help. I decide not to be so rich to give my money to person who need it than me. I decide to be a pool to make laugh from others. I decide to be a friend for anyone who need a temporary friend. I decide to enhance my skills in order to get more human's understanding. I decide to study further more to live with my passion is helping people. I decide to go abroad to see what are really happening in this world. I decide to love others for nothings ! For whoever read this note from me. I just want to tell you - Thank you for watching me. I am living for that 'someday'
I wish someday, the happy smile will appear on my mom's face again. I didn't see her happy smile for a very long time.
I wish someday I gonna know how to smile with all of my full feeling.
I wish someday I will know what is the real love between person with person.
I wish someday I have the wing to fly into heaven garden.
I wish I will have my close friends beside me ....now
I wish I have a lot of time for my nieces . I love them so much
I wish someday, one person will teach me what is the real love.
I have no love for my childhood . In my memories, my childhood like a horrible movie.
So, I decide give my love for people around me. I decide to give a smile for anyone I meet on the road. I decide to teach any poor children who need help. I decide not to be so rich to give my money to person who need it than me. I decide to be a pool to make laugh from others. I decide to be a friend for anyone who need a temporary friend. I decide to enhance my skills in order to get more human's understanding. I decide to study further more to live with my passion is helping people. I decide to go abroad to see what are really happening in this world. I decide to love others for nothings ! For whoever read this note from me. I just want to tell you - Thank you for watching me. I am living for that 'someday'
Jan 5, 2013
SHORT TRIP TO EXPLORE ASEAN
The real journey is not counted with miles road, it is counted by
friends.-Tim Cahill
I. My goals
II. Time
III. What is my plan?
IV. What makes the trip possible?
V. Media
VI. I need your help!
I.My goals
- Visit
at least 1 orphanage and 1 Local Committee of AIESEC in each country.
- See
beautiful places.
-
Meet as many people as possible.
- Meet Adamkhoo in person.
- Meet Adamkhoo in person.
- Experience this: “The real journey is not counted by miles, it
is counted by friends” -Tim Cahill
II.Time
2 months. Starting
date: Jan 14, 2013
III. What is my plan?
I will travel, visit orphanages, my
friend at AIESEC Organization and write. Most of the time I will travel by bus,
car, train or ferry and I will take plane only when necessary. Here
is my itinerary so far. I will update it constantly. Please visit my Facebook page or my blog for more information.
Thailand
Jan 14 – feb.26: Bangkok, Thailand
(For 3A Project, Southeast Asia)
Feb 27- Mar 2: lop buri (I love to see sun
flower) , Lanta, Lipe, Phangan, Phiphi & Samui Island Discovery
Singapore
Mar 2 – Mar 5: Nus ( My dream is to study in NUS. I want to explore it by my own way)
IV. What makes the trip possible?
V. Media
IV. What makes the trip more interest?
Physical: I do exercise every day. And I love
walking than driving a motorbike.
Financial: I will avoid hotels to save money. Thank to CouchSurfing, I can
find people to host me in almost every cities . When I can’t find anyone to
host me on CouchSurfing, I will try to ask my friends for help or look for a
homestay.
NGOs: I am trying to contact with NGOs and
Orphanage Center to arrange a visit with them. If you know any one working in
this field, please do not hesitate to introduce to me. Thank you very much!
Languages
My first language is
Vietnamese but I can speak English fluently. I think It is enough for this
trip. Also, I am learning Thai Language.
Networks
I have to
admit that I’m quite a lucky girl to have friends in AIESEC , and
my friends are all very caring and helpful( Especially in LC: Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam) and ABAC. They are the ones who have
encouraged me to take the trip and will try their best to make the trip
possible.
V. Media
VI. I need your help!
As one of my
goals is to meet as many people as possible, so by meeting me you already help
me a lot.
There are
some other things I need you to help me. I will be the luckiest girl in the
world if you spare some time to contact me here.
1. Host
If you can
host me or know anyone who can host me, please let me know. Even if you are not
staying in one of the cities I plan to go, I sincerely hope that you still
contact me. My plan is made based on what resources I have. If I know that
there is someone who can host me in your city, I will probably go there.
2. Introduce
me to loca orphanages and NUS Student and Adamkhoo
As a big
part of my trip is to visit orphanages and raise awareness of difficulties
orphans have to face nowadays, I need to get in touch with local NGOs and
orphanages. Moreover, I really want to visit my friends at AIESEC. If you know
anyone working in this field, please let introduce me to them. Thank you very
much!
4. Guide me
If you know
the place I’m going to well, please give me suggestion.
5. Meet me
As I say, by
meeting me you already do me a favor. I’m gonna be traveling alone so friends
are much needed! Please please contact me if I’m somewhere near you.
6. Introduce
me to people
If you know
anyone you think that can do anything of 3 things above, please introduce to
me.
I will be a luckiest girl in this world by the way you meet me!
Just leave your comment here and I will contact you.
I will be a luckiest girl in this world by the way you meet me!
Just leave your comment here and I will contact you.
Jan 4, 2013
TRAVEL
I will learn how to dance well someday.
I found out, music and art are the things that wake me up when I fall asleep in
long sleep without live. I want to be a singer- stand in a gorgeous stadium,
raise my voice and make my audiences breathless with my single high tune. Today,
I booked flight ticket for my 1st journey to discover ASEAN. But, I
just booked for one way ticket. I will go outside, go anywhere, anyway, meet a
lot of people and fly to the colorful world with my freedom wing. No matter what
happen with me. No matter challenges I face. I will explore this adventure
world by myself. May be I can meet my friends somewhere in this world. Who know!
Please guide me –my shooting star…Please!
Jan 2, 2013
Note for my friend
All my friend life long - journey. She never have the emotion that She really… really
love someone .Never do some crazy thing for my lover. Why? Because She don't
think he need it . And now, She told me She really want to do something for a special person
that she fell in 'love' with. I said 'love'?- Because, If it isn't love. So, what
is that ? Feel like he is change her mind when she fell depressed. He love her
,also. At least this is true for the 1st three days they meet each other. She can
not forget the way he hold her hand and...This is really special...The way he
look at her. His eyes were really sad. That time, He was in trouble with his
girl friend. He want to disappear . He talk to her that :" I plan a lot of
things to do in my short holiday at VN, because I want to hide the truth for
may be"- He still love his girl friend. And She just caring him like a poor
man in love. And, he kissed her for the 3rd date. Dare? She don't know the last time or
not. She just know they didn't meet each other for the last time he kissed her.They
didn't contact each other like the 1st 2 dates. Didn't make any promise for
another date in the future, also. May be, this is like a memory for both of them?. For
him- a destiny. If they really are the true love. They might meet each other by
chance in the future- at somewhere in this World! The emotion that She have from
him is very clear- She said "I just wish he stay health and happy with his new friends".
By the time. They must be explore it is love or not! Whatever! I still believe
the miracle will happen and the happy ending like fairy tale will happen for her. Why I
believe like that? Why He appear in front of her when she make a wish with the
star. She did! She did it. My best friend-She believe in magic (At least for this time). Saying like
this " Please! Please! Please!" - She looked up the star and said this
thousand times. The next day. He appeared! What happen between the present
and magic? When She looked his eyes, She told me :"Have a miserable soul inside it. I want
do to anything to help him escape from this". She did and success .Finally, My friend fell in
strange emotion with this guy. But, It is done. They couldn’t see each other
then. She told me- I wish I can see him for the last time. I will say to him “ For whatever
you really are, for whatever you love me or not, for whatever you remember me
or not, I will never forget you .I love you at least for this moment! I love the
way you dance with me. I wish our music turn so loud and we can dance together
forever. No matter how long you live in a thousand miles away. I will
always waiting for you! Why? You came to my world by shooting star wishes. And
I have to be responsible with this!" It is miracle. Isn't it?
I don’t know you have a chance to read this notes or not, my friend. Just simply believe in magic. Why this girl being like that?. She is like a princess with pink mind set all the time. She always too optimistic with anything. My friend! If you read this note. I hope you always be happy and have the happy ending with your story. I will be by your side to hear you share your lovely stories for me.
I don’t know you have a chance to read this notes or not, my friend. Just simply believe in magic. Why this girl being like that?. She is like a princess with pink mind set all the time. She always too optimistic with anything. My friend! If you read this note. I hope you always be happy and have the happy ending with your story. I will be by your side to hear you share your lovely stories for me.
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